The Art of saying “NO”8/8/8 Lionsgate

It is my first day of not having work for the past 2 years, preparing and getting ready for a brand new Chapter to unfold.  I did a post this morning on my Facebook about the art of saying NO, I have come to realise that when you start the journey of walking in your authentic truth, that is to say owning it, without justification, or the need of approval from others, things become different and things change, human nature right!!

Here is my understanding on a deeper level.   When you start to exercise your assertion, your judgement, the understanding of your capabilities, what you are able to do, what you desire to do, and what you want to do, things become clearer.  If you are sensitive then there may be a tendency to take it personally.

When you start saying NO to what you truly do not want to do, you make room for growth in what you truly want to do.  But here is the thing, one begins to realise that those that may be used to you saying YES regularly naturally start to fall away.

You see many people resist change, whether they agree or not, so when you start the journey of changing and asserting that change, it creates a “ripple” in the dynamics of your relationships, your family life, your work life, your intimate relationships, because all are so used to you saying YES.

So when you start saying NO you may find that people in your life will naturally start to fall away, spiritually, universally, it is the law of things, naturally to remove what, who needs to be removed to make room for your renewed growth and your changing soul.  The automatic response may be to feel a sense of resistance from you and others, trust it though for nothing ever grows by staying in ones comfort zone.

 

In love & light Susan xxx

Susan Lawrence Soul Coaching ©1533719998258

Living in a world where it is a courageous act to be yourself!

Thinking this morning how shallow and superficial some aspects of this world can be, but in essence it is not the World, it is the acts, values and belief systems that are actually shallow and superficial, in my opinion.

It feels like we are measured in terms of our monetary success, the clothes we wear, the way we look, how much we achieve.  With this mentality constantly being the driving force, it is no wonder there is a perception view and mindset that to view anyone who shares simplistic values and beliefs to be an odd ball.

My thinking is that it is actually the eccentrics, the odd balls, the geeks, the nerds, the different do actually achieve but perhaps in a more subtle quieter way than shouting to the rooftops look at me, look what I have achieved every step of the way.

When you finally get to a place where you can sit comfortably in your soul, sit comfortably with your quirks, with your failings, with your positives and with yourself simply as you are, I feel your soul has gotten to a place of acceptance!

It is when you get to a place of celebrating yourself, without the driving force and need of approval of others, is when you have found a quiet place of yes I have arrived.  I feel that, the beauty about the souls journey, and each will arrive at their own destination, in their own time, in their own unique way, is when you get there, you get there, it does not matter how long it takes, but that you get there.

So today I stand in celebration of being in a place of celebration of being my own SHERO and honouring all what has been achieved in my own quiet way and in my own unique way.  I hope that you see that all what you too have achieved, even in the smallest of baby steps without the extra added aspects of viewing from a perspective of money, materialism, ego or having the need to be perfect.  You simply are a success in your own right, the baby steps accumulate to the greater whole.

Celebrate you as you are, I do and my soul feels a place of inner peace at just that.

In love & light Susan xxx

Susan Lawrence Soul Coaching. ©

 

Today’s Universe Has Your Back Message – 10/04/2018

Good Morning, Good Morning, Good Morning,

Happy Tuesday, may your Tuesday be awesome!

We are wonderful Spirits having human experiences which come in many forms and in many ways, oh the learning that ensues with such experiences are vast, are wide and we learn all of the time, we are constantly evolving, which is a good thing, can you imagine if we did not allow ourselves to evolve how stuck we would be?

Today’s message is an interesting one, it states ” I am a spirit having a human experience and I’m here to get closer to love” what does that actually mean, well….. getting closer to Love is being able to view life and its experiences in the eyes of Love, how you may ask? I have found viewing it from a lens that our experiences are sent to teach us and that if we can let go of any victim mentality that life has done us wrong, people have done us wrong, and view each and every experience, person, situation or event in the eyes of “Teaching” we do ourselves a far better service on healing our hearts.

When we align ourselves with the power and wisdom of coming at things through loving eyes life feels and becomes much more bearable.  Life doesn’t happen for us, life happens and it is as a result and a culmination of situations, events, circumstances, experiences that we either rise up into our highest vibration of our truth, or we go down a slipper spiral into our lower vibration.  Acknowledging both is equally important, but the truth is how far we stay down, how long for and whether we continue to allow it.

So remember Life happens to us, not for us, and we are the captains of our ship and we have a choice as to how we set the sail, keep ploughing through those choppy waters, you will be sure to get to the smoother waters in time.

Get closer to LOVE, get closer to your heart and allow yourself to get closer to your Truth.

In love & Light, Susan xxx20180410_081301.jpg

21/03/2018 – Today Universe has your back message.

Good Morning,

The Sun is shining, the weather is sweet, we wish, its beautiful but cold, anyway enough!! how are you doing this morning? I hope your slumber was restful and has you feeling rejuvenated this morning and ready to go.

In the usual manner I asked the Universe for a card for the start of the day and as I was shuffling out sprung this card “My fearless freedom lights up the world”.

So my take on this is never feel afraid to express your truth, your essence of your soul, its freedom of movement, freedom of will and freedom of choice, many will try to quell your expression, especially if it isn’t in line with their values, this gives a real clue as to the vibration and energy of those around you and whether they are in your present moment conducive for your growth in your period of NOW. Make sense? yes? no? please do comment and feedback.

You see intrinsically we all have our own unique way of expressing and none of it is right or wrong, when it becomes more fractious is when there are expectations from others to express yourself because they are not comfortable with expressing themselves, you are and they feel uncomfortable around you doing so.  Remember our vibe attracts our tribe, so too do our experiences, but also with an understanding that we do outgrow certain individuals, situations, circumstances and one can usually tell when this takes place as there is no longer a feeling of JOY when you are interacting.  If you feel heavy around certain individuals it means that something is amiss with the energy that both of you bring together, remembering too it is a two way street.  Trust your inner guidance to alert you to what truly feels right and use your intuitive aerial to guide you.

Never feel afraid of your fearless freedom to be YOU, after all you just never know whose world you may be lighting up, or even that you may be inspiring someone without even knowing.

Have an awesome Wednesday in its unfolding, we are in the season of Spring, the spring equinox was yesterday and its a always a time for new beginnings.

Be authentically YOU.

In love & beautiful glowing light, Susan xxxx20180321_075637.jpg

Today’s Message – Know Your Truth – Spirit Guidance Deck – 17/03/2018

Absolutely amazing how in sync one can find themselves in line with the Universe and its message today, I reflect for a brief moment on a couple of my Statuses today on my Facebook page and then I asked for a message for Humanity today and myself, self lastly, and up came the card “Know Your Truth”, ironically, I had written a couple of statuses today on ones own truth, so I did have to smile when this card came up, it just sort of affirmed and compounded the message that I felt intuitively today.

We are governed in a World where we are told what to feel, who to follow, what to follow, I may give messages and pass these on for wisdom and light, but at the end of the day the real truth is the recipient following their own intuitive counsel, I see my role that I have as a gift and I see myself as a vessel and a facilitator and tool to support and empower others to make a personal choice for change, the end result and decision is always theirs and theirs alone.   What I do try and encourage is supporting individuals to really allow themselves to go inward and trust their inner gut feelings, for those feelings come from a valid space within their body and are never to be discounted, ridiculed or watered down, absolutely not.

This card today talks of dogma and a set of principles, rules or beliefs that have been created by humans in this physical dimension with an expectation of being followed by others, in the case of the light work that I do from my souls perspective I just share what is intuitively given and believe that freewill must form part of this work, you see everyone has a choice to feel if the messages resonate with their soul or not, this is perfectly fine and acceptable, there is no hard and fast rule, I do not for one moment expect anyone to believe anything, nor does it come from a place of force it comes from a place of working to uplift the vibration of this physical plane and for people to choose themselves whether any of it feels okay to their intuition.

From a soul perspective dogmatic thinking is a facade that is man made, why? because every individual person has their own soul truth to follow which guidance will be given from learning to tap into their intuition and its messages, nobody can tell you how to live, what to do and how to do it, yes we must be open to learning and growing and each one teach one, but the real nitty gritty of any choice or decision will always boil down to YOU, and your souls truth.

With assistance from your Spirit Guides, Your Ancestors you will be granted intuitive messages as a blueprint to follow in accordance with your souls truth, you will intuitively know if something feels right or wrong, I always say if you have a shred of doubt about any choice you make, “if in doubt, leave it out” but please do be honest with others in your Truth, this then not only free’s your soul up to integrity and truth it also allows anyone you may be interacting with a choice too.

Many messages and beliefs will become apparent to you as you journey on this thing called LIFE and you will get a sense of what feels write and what doesn’t.  Always trust your gut, for there is no other signal, sign that you body will give you than that, own your truth, trust it and always “To Thine Own Self Be True”.

You owe it to yourself to be true to you, for there is no greater place that you will get that truth from, than YOU.

Stay blessed, stay loving, be honest and be true.

In love & Light, Susan xx20180317_140812 (1).jpg