Divine Message 16/08/2018 – Assertiveness – Where do you need to speak your Truth!

Good Morning, Good Morning, Good Morning all,

Wishing you a beautifully blessed Thursday in all that you do today!  It may be a little dismal outside, but you can create your own inner sunshine.

Today’s card speaks of Assertion, are you in a situation that requires you to speak your Truth? is there something that you may have been avoiding in vocalising?

It can feel hard at times to be assertive at times with matters of the heart, especially if conflict is something that you don’t like or aspire too. But sometimes when we speak our Truth it sets our soul free, it sets us free and other to make room for progress and both.

Of course that is on the precipice that you are given the opportunity and space, and vice versa to be able to do so, sometimes if there is a feeling of not feeling “Safe” to speak your Truth then it can be difficult.  Sometimes we may not always get the “Closure” that is desired and vice versa.  Trust though that the timing of and revelation of Truth is paramount, and I have learnt from experience that, the time does show up and enable you do do so, even if it is later on down the line.   The main thing though is being honest with yourself and asserting your truth where you can, when you do, it gives rise to the opportunity for change.

Sometimes we fear opening up and communicating our truth, and in reality sometimes it doesn’t turn out as bad as we had expected.

Keep sharing your authentic you, be assertive in who you are, without any apology.

In love & light, Susan xxx

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Divine Message 15/08/2018 – Heart Chakra – are you open or closed to Love!

Good Morning, Good Morning, Good Morning,

I have been awake for ages, certainly my sleep pattern feels rather awry at present, I understand it though, “Transitions” and feeling the energy and ripples of change, I have learnt not to fight it, but flow with it.

Today’s Divine message refers to the Heart Chakra, the heart Chakra rules your emotions, the seat of your soul, your heart and emotions of love and goodwill towards self and others.

Is your heart open? or closed? Where do you allow yourself to freely express your loving emotions? where do you close yourself off from doing so? where do you close others off from expressing theirs, perhaps because your heart is closed?

Matters of the heart will always be the one driving force of humanity, the one driving force that is set to compel, repel and dispel.  You only have to look at the agony aunt columns to see how much people desire to have answers, and yet when we constantly allow ourselves to seek outside of ourselves for love validation, and look to “other” to validate us and complete us, we set ourselves up for a really big fall.

Yet Love, emotions, feelings of connection with other (interdependence) are so essential to that feel good factor, you only have to see two people in Love to see the driving force within, when a woman is loved correctly, she can position herself into her womanly role, her goddess like self, role and her queenly position, her feminine, when a man is loved correctly, he can do the same, position himself in his rightful masculinity, without it being threatened, questioned or emasculated, for both it just IS.  Especially when the connection of both is compatible and both are in alignment.  And yet it appears one of the most elusive games ever, “Love”.  Why? because people expect so much, there is heavy expectation to see the love relationship as a fix to make them better, when in essence the only one that can do that is “self”.

Love is the centre of being, it is the most essential ingredient to feeling satisfied, full, appreciated, acknowledged, validated that both matter, that both count.  The difficulty arises when there is an expectation of an outcome, the learning is to live in the moment, enjoying each other, enjoying the journey, trusting yourself, trusting other and enjoying the growth that such a journey affords.

When your heart C

hakra is open and you feel safe to love, you feel ready to love and you are at a stage of truly accepting and loving yourself, the beauty of the love journey begins.   Today’s Divine guidance speaks of allowing yourself to be open, to feel safe to love and know that you will be guided, protected both within yourself by your own intuitive guidance and knowing that the higher spiritual guidance has your back.

When we are Loved correctly we can open up and blossom into our true higher selves.

In love & light, Susan xxxx

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Divine Message 13/08/2018 – “Listen”

Good Morning, Good Morning, Good Morning,

“Happy Monday”.

How has your weekend been? I do hope that it has been all that you desired and more, that you have gifted yourself some R&R, and the capacity to re-charge.  It is so essential to your well being.

Sometimes I don’t think we do enough of that, always rushing, here there, and everywhere.   Hardly stopping sometimes to eat, to take a break, there is only so much of this rushing around that you can do, before burn out sets in.

Today’s message ties in with these thoughts, how often do you allow yourself to be still and listen to your inner guidance, how often do you allow yourself to really quieten your racing mind, with thoughts, I got to do this, I got to do that, oh I must remember to do this, I must remember to do that.

Today’s message speaks of quieten your racing mind and allow yourself to feel reassured that all is in hand, by staying receptive to this intuitive guidance, spiritual guidance and trusting, grounding yourself, that all will be well, this can feel difficult to achieve if anxiety, worry and concern are prevalent, in your mind.  Especially if you are a person who is prone to worry, to feel that you must have everything under control.

Sometimes when things are falling apart, they are actually falling together.  How so? you may ask, because when things are falling apart, it means there is a process of elimination, the Universe is taking care of what isn’t fitting for your souls growth, and removing it, so that good things can fall together, does that make sense?

Try to quieten your racing mind filled with anxiety, concern and worry.  As I write, I too have a lot going on that is concerning, but I have been gifting myself the capacity to imagine myself as a very strong “rooted” oak tree that is standing firm, in the sway of strong winds, from Mother Nature.

I was gifted yesterday the capacity to be present in an hours meditation, and I have to say it was one of the most poignant, meditations that I have experienced, that will still present within my soul for a long time.

So today, I ask you to “Listen” to your inner guidance, to your sense of faith in you, your faith in whatever you choose to believe in, that all will be well, and if you find yourself among chaos and disorder, please remember that sometimes there needs to be a shuffling to remove what does not serve your souls individual growth.

Wishing you a beautiful Monday, in all that you do.

With Love & light, Susan xx

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Divine Message 11/08/2018 – Focus on service.

Good Morning, Good Morning, Good Morning,

Happy Saturday as the day unfolds, may it bring, joy, blessings, peace and enjoyment.

Today’s card speaks of Acts of Service.  Where do you like to be of service?

How do you like to serve others?   Compassion is at the heart of this ethos.  Compassion and serving others gives a real sense of satisfaction and that is a real positive thing.

What is paramount though is protecting yourself while you do, for sadly, human nature is as such to “take” “take” “take” if allowed, there needs to be a balance between ascertaining when there is a real need, against abuse of kindness, this is essential in any situation, personally, professionally, as we set the template of what we allow.

Focusing on service though supports the world to flow and go around with the aspects of giving and receiving, and then the circle goes round again, both are paramount to the flow of energy in its positive.

If you can allow yourself the mindset to give without a view of reward then this is a positive start, if you give with an expectation, then you are setting yourself up to fail, for that energy isn’t conducive to the natural flow and law of attraction.

There is a change in the dynamic of the world and its compassionate giving.  I do feel years ago there was much more a community spirit, there still is, but I feel that there is a focus a bit more now of others focusing on “Self”.

Years ago there was a sense of community spirit, a neighbour popping in I have run out of sugar, milk, tea bags and there was a real sense of sharing, of course you can have some, no problem, it felt good to be asked and it felt good to share and to give, knowing that you had supported someone’s day to give something to them that they needed.  The world needs more of this I feel.

So today ask yourself where can you be of serve? where does your soul naturally gravitate in this regard?

So today’s card speaks of putting your entire focus on the natural law of giving and receiving, with the balance at not being embarrassed when you do receive, when you have not been asked, but simply saying thank you, and knowing that in your acts of service, you may just be making someone’s day!

 

Have a beautiful Saturday, in all that you do.   Just seeing a smile on their face will be beautiful enough.

With love & light Susan xx

 

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The Art of saying “NO”8/8/8 Lionsgate

It is my first day of not having work for the past 2 years, preparing and getting ready for a brand new Chapter to unfold.  I did a post this morning on my Facebook about the art of saying NO, I have come to realise that when you start the journey of walking in your authentic truth, that is to say owning it, without justification, or the need of approval from others, things become different and things change, human nature right!!

Here is my understanding on a deeper level.   When you start to exercise your assertion, your judgement, the understanding of your capabilities, what you are able to do, what you desire to do, and what you want to do, things become clearer.  If you are sensitive then there may be a tendency to take it personally.

When you start saying NO to what you truly do not want to do, you make room for growth in what you truly want to do.  But here is the thing, one begins to realise that those that may be used to you saying YES regularly naturally start to fall away.

You see many people resist change, whether they agree or not, so when you start the journey of changing and asserting that change, it creates a “ripple” in the dynamics of your relationships, your family life, your work life, your intimate relationships, because all are so used to you saying YES.

So when you start saying NO you may find that people in your life will naturally start to fall away, spiritually, universally, it is the law of things, naturally to remove what, who needs to be removed to make room for your renewed growth and your changing soul.  The automatic response may be to feel a sense of resistance from you and others, trust it though for nothing ever grows by staying in ones comfort zone.

 

In love & light Susan xxx

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Divine Message 08/08/2018 – An opportunity to Forgive! Lions Gateway 08/08/8

Good Morning, Good Morning, Good Morning,

Happy Wednesday in its unfolding, may it be a beautiful day, lets hope so.

The Lions Gateway, what is that?? you may be asking, it happens on the 8th of August (8th month) and this year is 2018 (whereby the 8 is significant) it is a time whereby there is increased cosmic energy aligned with the physical realm.  Have you noticed it? some who are open to this spiritual concept will be more in tune, and those who are on a different alignment will not notice, everyone reaches their spiritual alignment, if it is their choosing in their own time.

The Lions Gateway is associated with the Heart centre and is an expression to the Divine. Plus there are currently 5 planets in Retrograde which means (going backwards) and this in conjunction with this powerful energy, plus we have recently had a super moon eclipse the energies surrounding the cosmos are quite powerful at present, with lots of ship shaping going on.

So it is no surprise that today’s divine message is indicative of “Forgiveness”  it speaks of an opportunity to forgive, many are of the view that to forgive means that you allow the behaviour off the hook, that you condone the behaviour and actions, a reminder that it isn’t possible for you to be responsible for someone else’s behaviour or actions, you can only ever be responsible for you own.  Forgiving someone is actually about YOU, rather than them.

When you allow yourself to forgive you set your soul free, you remove the angst, the discord the emotional upset, those feelings of hanging on, because you haven’t forgiven, you allow it all a space to be set free.  In doing so, you give your soul a space for new growth, a new lease of life, as you no longer allow the very act/s or behaviours of the hurt you experienced a place and expression in your heart and soul.

Imagine how liberating to your heart and soul that would be!

So today, if you have been hanging on to a transgression, holding on to hurt from pain that you have experienced, view it from a place of What was the lesson? what have I learnt? what opportunities has it given me? where have I grown? and where are there areas that I still need to develop and grow?

When you let go you give your heart and soul a place of love and compassion, you set yourself free, it is about YOU, not “other”.   The only person you hurt by hanging on, is YOU.

So today on this Lions Gateway day, which is powerful in its essence, “let go and forgive”

I SET MYSELF FREE WHEN I FORGIVE!

In love & light, Susan xxx

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Living in a world where it is a courageous act to be yourself!

Thinking this morning how shallow and superficial some aspects of this world can be, but in essence it is not the World, it is the acts, values and belief systems that are actually shallow and superficial, in my opinion.

It feels like we are measured in terms of our monetary success, the clothes we wear, the way we look, how much we achieve.  With this mentality constantly being the driving force, it is no wonder there is a perception view and mindset that to view anyone who shares simplistic values and beliefs to be an odd ball.

My thinking is that it is actually the eccentrics, the odd balls, the geeks, the nerds, the different do actually achieve but perhaps in a more subtle quieter way than shouting to the rooftops look at me, look what I have achieved every step of the way.

When you finally get to a place where you can sit comfortably in your soul, sit comfortably with your quirks, with your failings, with your positives and with yourself simply as you are, I feel your soul has gotten to a place of acceptance!

It is when you get to a place of celebrating yourself, without the driving force and need of approval of others, is when you have found a quiet place of yes I have arrived.  I feel that, the beauty about the souls journey, and each will arrive at their own destination, in their own time, in their own unique way, is when you get there, you get there, it does not matter how long it takes, but that you get there.

So today I stand in celebration of being in a place of celebration of being my own SHERO and honouring all what has been achieved in my own quiet way and in my own unique way.  I hope that you see that all what you too have achieved, even in the smallest of baby steps without the extra added aspects of viewing from a perspective of money, materialism, ego or having the need to be perfect.  You simply are a success in your own right, the baby steps accumulate to the greater whole.

Celebrate you as you are, I do and my soul feels a place of inner peace at just that.

In love & light Susan xxx

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Divine Message 06/08/2018 – Life Purpose.

Good Morning, Good Morning, Good Morning,

Wishing you a fabulous Monday, as it unfolds in the joy of the day, whichever way that may be. I hope that it is a day that feels just right!

Today’s divine insight is “Life Purpose” sometimes we can feel busy wondering what our “Life Purpose” is that we forget to enjoy what actually is unfolding in each moment, with a sense of trust that when we serve others in some way in the name of compassion and service to humanity, that our “Life Purpose” will take care of itself and your purpose will serve you.

Always trust in any given moment that you are where you are meant to be, for the learning, for the lessons, for the joys, the highs and the lows, it’s all in the natural law of things.  Always have an inner sense of knowing what feels right for your soul, that hidden antennae the barometer that isn’t visible but can be felt, trust it “intuition” it is there for a reason and serves a great purpose.

When something feels right, trust it and go with it, when something feels off, trust that too, all will be revealed in its rightful timing.

Have a great Monday, make it count!

In love & light, Susan xx

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Divine message 4/8/2018 – The Gift of Giving and allowing self to Receive.

Good Morning, Good Morning, Good Morning,

The Sun is gleaming, and oh how beautiful this feels when one is blessed with eyes that have opened to see, the gift of Gratitude, the gift of being thankful to be able to see another day, sadly someone, somewhere has taken their last breath, and a family are now in grief, morbid you may say, but in the scheme of things life is to be lived and experienced, but never taken for granted.

This is why it is so important to grab the joyful moments even if they are temporary, you see the learning is that everything is temporary, it is impossible to believe that everything is forever, for forever does not exist, there is only now.

Today’s message is the Gift of Giving & Receiving, do you allow yourself to receive? when you give, and do you allow yourself to give when you receive regularly?

Balance is key in the scheme of energy, when we allow the flow of give and receive to be in balance then it filters through to other areas of our lives, even in the exchange of Money which is energy, I confess to still be a work in progress in this area, I am learning.

Do you question or feel embarrassed when you receive? do you automatically put up an obstacle by saying “you shouldn’t have”? or do you simply allow yourself to say “Thank you” food for thought.

Imagine all of the times that you gave without expectation of return, that you gave from your heart and soul, that you gave because you were there at that time, and it felt right, consider when you are gifted back, that it is the Universe’s way of rewarding you back for all of the silent things that you do without expectation of return.

Simply say “Thank you”

Wishing you a beautifully blessed day in its unfolding, the Sun shining certainly adds  to one feeling brighter, positive and glad to have been granted another day.

Make it awesome, make it count.

With love, light and blessings,

Susan xx

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Divine Message 03/08/2018 – Healing Your Inner Child.

Good Morning, Good Morning, Good Morning,

I hope that you have had a good week so far!  Today’s card I feel is an interesting one,  Healing Your Inner Child”  Allow it to be felt, heard, validated and expressed.

How often do you allow your inner child a space to feel all of those things? to even be given a space for a little bit of fun or creativity.  We all know that adulthood is all about responsibility, maturity, being perceived as doing the right thing from the judgement of moral standards, or expectations of what an adult means, but where do you allow your inner child to express itself?

I watched an interesting video yesterday which indicates the very thing that compounds pain in adulthood and that is not healing our inner child if there has been trauma, challenges as a child when growing up, quite often not healing it can ripple and permeate into the very core of trying to become an adult, it has an impact on our relationships, friendships and also in general.

So where do you recognise, any trauma or healing within your inner child that may need attention?

Society I feel doesn’t encourage such reflection, it is usually only addressed in adulthood when an individual gets to a stage of catalyst and being forced into a situation of looking in the mirror that at times it may only then get addressed.

The important aspects of healing our inner child I feel are the following:-

  • Healing earlier childhood trauma, hurt, pain and experiences.
  • Learning to forgive those that have hurt you.
  • Learning to forgive yourself
  • Learning to get to a stage of integrating your inner child into adulthood
  • Allowing the expression of feelings of all that is associated emotionally, spiritually and mentally with your inner child.
  • Allowing for natural expression of your inner child, this can be through fun, creative expression, dance, communication, literature.

You see sometimes we forget to allow our “Inner Child” a place to have a little fun and to play, this is so important, as it gives the little person that is part of your inner you a space to feel honoured.

Have a great Friday, deep stuff, yes it is, but healing is, you don’t get to the root of healing by staying on the surface.

 

In love and beautiful light,

 

Susan Lawrence Soul Coaching ©