Divine Message 16/08/2018 – Assertiveness – Where do you need to speak your Truth!

Good Morning, Good Morning, Good Morning all,

Wishing you a beautifully blessed Thursday in all that you do today!  It may be a little dismal outside, but you can create your own inner sunshine.

Today’s card speaks of Assertion, are you in a situation that requires you to speak your Truth? is there something that you may have been avoiding in vocalising?

It can feel hard at times to be assertive at times with matters of the heart, especially if conflict is something that you don’t like or aspire too. But sometimes when we speak our Truth it sets our soul free, it sets us free and other to make room for progress and both.

Of course that is on the precipice that you are given the opportunity and space, and vice versa to be able to do so, sometimes if there is a feeling of not feeling “Safe” to speak your Truth then it can be difficult.  Sometimes we may not always get the “Closure” that is desired and vice versa.  Trust though that the timing of and revelation of Truth is paramount, and I have learnt from experience that, the time does show up and enable you do do so, even if it is later on down the line.   The main thing though is being honest with yourself and asserting your truth where you can, when you do, it gives rise to the opportunity for change.

Sometimes we fear opening up and communicating our truth, and in reality sometimes it doesn’t turn out as bad as we had expected.

Keep sharing your authentic you, be assertive in who you are, without any apology.

In love & light, Susan xxx

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Divine Message 15/08/2018 – Heart Chakra – are you open or closed to Love!

Good Morning, Good Morning, Good Morning,

I have been awake for ages, certainly my sleep pattern feels rather awry at present, I understand it though, “Transitions” and feeling the energy and ripples of change, I have learnt not to fight it, but flow with it.

Today’s Divine message refers to the Heart Chakra, the heart Chakra rules your emotions, the seat of your soul, your heart and emotions of love and goodwill towards self and others.

Is your heart open? or closed? Where do you allow yourself to freely express your loving emotions? where do you close yourself off from doing so? where do you close others off from expressing theirs, perhaps because your heart is closed?

Matters of the heart will always be the one driving force of humanity, the one driving force that is set to compel, repel and dispel.  You only have to look at the agony aunt columns to see how much people desire to have answers, and yet when we constantly allow ourselves to seek outside of ourselves for love validation, and look to “other” to validate us and complete us, we set ourselves up for a really big fall.

Yet Love, emotions, feelings of connection with other (interdependence) are so essential to that feel good factor, you only have to see two people in Love to see the driving force within, when a woman is loved correctly, she can position herself into her womanly role, her goddess like self, role and her queenly position, her feminine, when a man is loved correctly, he can do the same, position himself in his rightful masculinity, without it being threatened, questioned or emasculated, for both it just IS.  Especially when the connection of both is compatible and both are in alignment.  And yet it appears one of the most elusive games ever, “Love”.  Why? because people expect so much, there is heavy expectation to see the love relationship as a fix to make them better, when in essence the only one that can do that is “self”.

Love is the centre of being, it is the most essential ingredient to feeling satisfied, full, appreciated, acknowledged, validated that both matter, that both count.  The difficulty arises when there is an expectation of an outcome, the learning is to live in the moment, enjoying each other, enjoying the journey, trusting yourself, trusting other and enjoying the growth that such a journey affords.

When your heart C

hakra is open and you feel safe to love, you feel ready to love and you are at a stage of truly accepting and loving yourself, the beauty of the love journey begins.   Today’s Divine guidance speaks of allowing yourself to be open, to feel safe to love and know that you will be guided, protected both within yourself by your own intuitive guidance and knowing that the higher spiritual guidance has your back.

When we are Loved correctly we can open up and blossom into our true higher selves.

In love & light, Susan xxxx

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Divine Message 13/08/2018 – “Listen”

Good Morning, Good Morning, Good Morning,

“Happy Monday”.

How has your weekend been? I do hope that it has been all that you desired and more, that you have gifted yourself some R&R, and the capacity to re-charge.  It is so essential to your well being.

Sometimes I don’t think we do enough of that, always rushing, here there, and everywhere.   Hardly stopping sometimes to eat, to take a break, there is only so much of this rushing around that you can do, before burn out sets in.

Today’s message ties in with these thoughts, how often do you allow yourself to be still and listen to your inner guidance, how often do you allow yourself to really quieten your racing mind, with thoughts, I got to do this, I got to do that, oh I must remember to do this, I must remember to do that.

Today’s message speaks of quieten your racing mind and allow yourself to feel reassured that all is in hand, by staying receptive to this intuitive guidance, spiritual guidance and trusting, grounding yourself, that all will be well, this can feel difficult to achieve if anxiety, worry and concern are prevalent, in your mind.  Especially if you are a person who is prone to worry, to feel that you must have everything under control.

Sometimes when things are falling apart, they are actually falling together.  How so? you may ask, because when things are falling apart, it means there is a process of elimination, the Universe is taking care of what isn’t fitting for your souls growth, and removing it, so that good things can fall together, does that make sense?

Try to quieten your racing mind filled with anxiety, concern and worry.  As I write, I too have a lot going on that is concerning, but I have been gifting myself the capacity to imagine myself as a very strong “rooted” oak tree that is standing firm, in the sway of strong winds, from Mother Nature.

I was gifted yesterday the capacity to be present in an hours meditation, and I have to say it was one of the most poignant, meditations that I have experienced, that will still present within my soul for a long time.

So today, I ask you to “Listen” to your inner guidance, to your sense of faith in you, your faith in whatever you choose to believe in, that all will be well, and if you find yourself among chaos and disorder, please remember that sometimes there needs to be a shuffling to remove what does not serve your souls individual growth.

Wishing you a beautiful Monday, in all that you do.

With Love & light, Susan xx

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Divine Message 08/08/2018 – An opportunity to Forgive! Lions Gateway 08/08/8

Good Morning, Good Morning, Good Morning,

Happy Wednesday in its unfolding, may it be a beautiful day, lets hope so.

The Lions Gateway, what is that?? you may be asking, it happens on the 8th of August (8th month) and this year is 2018 (whereby the 8 is significant) it is a time whereby there is increased cosmic energy aligned with the physical realm.  Have you noticed it? some who are open to this spiritual concept will be more in tune, and those who are on a different alignment will not notice, everyone reaches their spiritual alignment, if it is their choosing in their own time.

The Lions Gateway is associated with the Heart centre and is an expression to the Divine. Plus there are currently 5 planets in Retrograde which means (going backwards) and this in conjunction with this powerful energy, plus we have recently had a super moon eclipse the energies surrounding the cosmos are quite powerful at present, with lots of ship shaping going on.

So it is no surprise that today’s divine message is indicative of “Forgiveness”  it speaks of an opportunity to forgive, many are of the view that to forgive means that you allow the behaviour off the hook, that you condone the behaviour and actions, a reminder that it isn’t possible for you to be responsible for someone else’s behaviour or actions, you can only ever be responsible for you own.  Forgiving someone is actually about YOU, rather than them.

When you allow yourself to forgive you set your soul free, you remove the angst, the discord the emotional upset, those feelings of hanging on, because you haven’t forgiven, you allow it all a space to be set free.  In doing so, you give your soul a space for new growth, a new lease of life, as you no longer allow the very act/s or behaviours of the hurt you experienced a place and expression in your heart and soul.

Imagine how liberating to your heart and soul that would be!

So today, if you have been hanging on to a transgression, holding on to hurt from pain that you have experienced, view it from a place of What was the lesson? what have I learnt? what opportunities has it given me? where have I grown? and where are there areas that I still need to develop and grow?

When you let go you give your heart and soul a place of love and compassion, you set yourself free, it is about YOU, not “other”.   The only person you hurt by hanging on, is YOU.

So today on this Lions Gateway day, which is powerful in its essence, “let go and forgive”

I SET MYSELF FREE WHEN I FORGIVE!

In love & light, Susan xxx

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Living in a world where it is a courageous act to be yourself!

Thinking this morning how shallow and superficial some aspects of this world can be, but in essence it is not the World, it is the acts, values and belief systems that are actually shallow and superficial, in my opinion.

It feels like we are measured in terms of our monetary success, the clothes we wear, the way we look, how much we achieve.  With this mentality constantly being the driving force, it is no wonder there is a perception view and mindset that to view anyone who shares simplistic values and beliefs to be an odd ball.

My thinking is that it is actually the eccentrics, the odd balls, the geeks, the nerds, the different do actually achieve but perhaps in a more subtle quieter way than shouting to the rooftops look at me, look what I have achieved every step of the way.

When you finally get to a place where you can sit comfortably in your soul, sit comfortably with your quirks, with your failings, with your positives and with yourself simply as you are, I feel your soul has gotten to a place of acceptance!

It is when you get to a place of celebrating yourself, without the driving force and need of approval of others, is when you have found a quiet place of yes I have arrived.  I feel that, the beauty about the souls journey, and each will arrive at their own destination, in their own time, in their own unique way, is when you get there, you get there, it does not matter how long it takes, but that you get there.

So today I stand in celebration of being in a place of celebration of being my own SHERO and honouring all what has been achieved in my own quiet way and in my own unique way.  I hope that you see that all what you too have achieved, even in the smallest of baby steps without the extra added aspects of viewing from a perspective of money, materialism, ego or having the need to be perfect.  You simply are a success in your own right, the baby steps accumulate to the greater whole.

Celebrate you as you are, I do and my soul feels a place of inner peace at just that.

In love & light Susan xxx

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Divine Message 05/08/2018 – A place of calm, a place to regroup – PEACE

Good Morning, Good Morning, Good Morning,

Happy Sunday, a blessed and beautiful day to you as it unfolds in its joy.

Today’s message speaks of regrouping yourself, grounding yourself in the beautiful element of Water, there is nothing more healing than the sound of water, the feel or water and the sThight of water, it is powerful in its rejuvenating properties, in its healing properties.

If you cannot get near water today, try a visualisation exercise of imagining yourself near your favourite beach, hear the sounds, smell the smell, touch the water, and sit and bask in it, with a Sun or moon that glistens in its wake, hold that vision for some time as you breath in deeply and breathe out deeply, imagine all of your stresses melting away, falling away and no longer attaching themselves to your energy, it is gone.

The greatest Gift is being able to stay calm in among chaos, tension and stress, there is beauty in this, there is grounding in this, and it means that you are in your driving seat.

Have a blissful day visualising, being and knowing that whatever troubles you may be experiencing, they are temporary, for they too change like the seasons.

In love & Light, Susan xxx

 

Susan Lawrence Soul Coaching ©

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Being disconnected!

Happy Saturday,

I have my quiet thinking reflective head on today, and have been thinking about the subject of loneliness, and isolation.  Facebook helps many feel connected virtually, yet we appear to be living in a world where a vast amount of people feel a sense of loneliness at the very core.

The virtual world, of Texting, Whats app, Messenger, Hangouts, Email, Snap chat and many others, do people actually talk to each other anymore?

Connections being made by text, conversations by text alone, appears to have produced a laziness to connect in a very real way.  And yet there are many that feel a sense of real loneliness!  I created a meme today and the caption said,

“Perhaps you feel empty? perhaps you feel that something is missing? Perhaps it is you that is missing? and you are the one you have been searching for!”

Interdependence is what we have been created for, I still believe this in many ways, yet there is a real disconnection with this happening, so many people searching for gratification outside of themselves, so many seeking for the void that they feel within themselves, to be filled through another.  When in essence to put your happiness at the hands of another is an expectation that may create a sense of dissatisfaction, because in essence another may not be able to meet that expectation.

How many times do you allow yourself to sit and be present with yourself? and to real feel a sense of connection with YOU!, There is so much that you can do when you are present with “Self”, there are things that you can do to fill your time, there are things that you can engage in to make yourself feel whole.

We live in a society that fosters being with another, and yes I do believe whether we like to admit it or not, we all do need someone, but I have come to learn that the time that we can truly be happy, is when we have allowed ourselves the journey of being happy and present with “self”.  That place when you feel a sense of peace and acceptance and being at one with YOU.  It is then that I believe that we can truly connect with another, essentially because the pressure and need, the expectation for another to fill the void that you may be feeling becomes less.  I love nothing that spending time quietly with myself, being in silence at times, listening to music sometimes, dancing, reading, researching, writing, doing things that need to be done, watching some TV, going out in nature and capturing beauty on my camera or on my phone, sometimes jumping on a bus and going to the beach.  There is no expectation from me for another to fill my silence, I can do that.

It is when you finally get to a place of acceptance, and being at one with yourself, that you will find another.  Ironically the very world that has now been created with social media, is connected yet disconnected, does that make sense to you! It has also fostered lazy behaviour where people feel that they no longer have to put the effort in, this goes to both males and females, it is all to easy to drop a message than actually pick up the phone, or pick up the phone and arrange a face to face meeting to really connect.  Like everything connection has even come at a price of disposal, almost like online shopping, pick what you like and then clicking.

Its sad really, a World that is connected, yet so disconnected.

I know that I would prefer to smell a persons presence, to feel their presence, to be able to hear the tone of their voice, their facial expressions, the tone of their vocabulary, how they express themselves, and yet no longer do I desire to just “Settle”, for I have learnt it is healthier to be alone, than with a connection that doesn’t feel real.

“Connect with what’s real, so you can feel!!

In love & light, Susan xxx

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