New Moon in Leo, Solar Eclipse 11/08/2018 – Out of the shadow and into the light.

Happy New Moon day,

it is a solar eclipse in the Astrological sign of Leo.  Leo’s are fabulous in their expression, they can be the fun and life and soul of the party, they are exuberant, flamboyant, gregarious and full of energy, on the plus side.  On the negative side they can be seen as arrogant and full of their own glory.  But in truth, isn’t that something that we are all capable of?

Many aspects of an individual’s astrological sign can be viewed in their positive or their negative, quite often, human nature tends to err on the side of the negative.  Sadly, but we need both aspects as part of our persona to exist and to encourage us of exactly where we need to strive and grow and work on, in our shadow aspects of our persona.

Today’s new moon is about addressing what comes up from our shadow selves, being aware of what is showing up and being present, working on this, this can be in terms of emotions, situations, circumstances or events.  It is super potent right now because we also have 5 planets in retrograde, so it is a super charged time.  Many emotions are coming up from people’s shadow selves.  Human nature has a tendency to deny its existence because it feels downright uncomfortable to imagine for one moment that one could feel some of the dark shadow aspects of ones soul, but these arise for a reason.

Quite often they are unhealed parts of ourselves that are being illuminated as a means of addressing aspects of our healing that need to be healed.  If you are a person who is becoming aware of your existence on a deeper level, you will understand.  If you are a person who isn’t on that level of understanding yet, it may feel alien and uncomfortable.

Today’s call is to address what is being revealed from the deeper aspects of your subconscious soul and shadow self.  Not always easy, not always comfortable, but think about it, do we grow when we are cosy, comfortable and complacent? NO, we don’t we grow when we are forced into a corner or suddenly we do not feel we have a choice.

Ask your Spirit Guides and Angels to help you illuminate and bring to light what is sitting within your subconscious soul as a means of moving forward and bringing this up and turning it into light.  There are so many things that you can do to channel any deep and negative emotions, sport, drawing, painting, singing, dancing, poetry, writing, blogging, sharing your truth with others, ( you never know who you will inspire).

Try not to resist the feelings, emotions associated, you don’t need to fix them, you don’t need to act on them, just become aware and be present in them, note them down and allow your soul and spirit to transform them through your intuitive guidance.

Don’t forget to allow yourself to set your intent of what it is that you desire to create in this new moon.  New Moon time is a time to set your intent for your next chapter prior to the next full moon, ask for what it is that your soul truly desires, and then believe that you are worthy to receive it, and if you are in alignment with your souls growth and the universe then all will be revealed.

Have a wonderful time manifesting your growth for your next chapter.

In love & light, Susan xxxx

Susan Lawrence Soul Coaching ©

 

Divine Message 06/08/2018 – Life Purpose.

Good Morning, Good Morning, Good Morning,

Wishing you a fabulous Monday, as it unfolds in the joy of the day, whichever way that may be. I hope that it is a day that feels just right!

Today’s divine insight is “Life Purpose” sometimes we can feel busy wondering what our “Life Purpose” is that we forget to enjoy what actually is unfolding in each moment, with a sense of trust that when we serve others in some way in the name of compassion and service to humanity, that our “Life Purpose” will take care of itself and your purpose will serve you.

Always trust in any given moment that you are where you are meant to be, for the learning, for the lessons, for the joys, the highs and the lows, it’s all in the natural law of things.  Always have an inner sense of knowing what feels right for your soul, that hidden antennae the barometer that isn’t visible but can be felt, trust it “intuition” it is there for a reason and serves a great purpose.

When something feels right, trust it and go with it, when something feels off, trust that too, all will be revealed in its rightful timing.

Have a great Monday, make it count!

In love & light, Susan xx

Susan Lawrence Soul Coaching ©

 

 

 

Divine Message 03/08/2018 – Healing Your Inner Child.

Good Morning, Good Morning, Good Morning,

I hope that you have had a good week so far!  Today’s card I feel is an interesting one,  Healing Your Inner Child”  Allow it to be felt, heard, validated and expressed.

How often do you allow your inner child a space to feel all of those things? to even be given a space for a little bit of fun or creativity.  We all know that adulthood is all about responsibility, maturity, being perceived as doing the right thing from the judgement of moral standards, or expectations of what an adult means, but where do you allow your inner child to express itself?

I watched an interesting video yesterday which indicates the very thing that compounds pain in adulthood and that is not healing our inner child if there has been trauma, challenges as a child when growing up, quite often not healing it can ripple and permeate into the very core of trying to become an adult, it has an impact on our relationships, friendships and also in general.

So where do you recognise, any trauma or healing within your inner child that may need attention?

Society I feel doesn’t encourage such reflection, it is usually only addressed in adulthood when an individual gets to a stage of catalyst and being forced into a situation of looking in the mirror that at times it may only then get addressed.

The important aspects of healing our inner child I feel are the following:-

  • Healing earlier childhood trauma, hurt, pain and experiences.
  • Learning to forgive those that have hurt you.
  • Learning to forgive yourself
  • Learning to get to a stage of integrating your inner child into adulthood
  • Allowing the expression of feelings of all that is associated emotionally, spiritually and mentally with your inner child.
  • Allowing for natural expression of your inner child, this can be through fun, creative expression, dance, communication, literature.

You see sometimes we forget to allow our “Inner Child” a place to have a little fun and to play, this is so important, as it gives the little person that is part of your inner you a space to feel honoured.

Have a great Friday, deep stuff, yes it is, but healing is, you don’t get to the root of healing by staying on the surface.

 

In love and beautiful light,

 

Susan Lawrence Soul Coaching ©

An Interdependent Relationship is the healthiest way v co-dependency, learning the art of detachment in relationships.

Relationships, the most sought after thing, yet for many, including myself can feel illusive, why is that, well here is my learning, until we get healthy with ourselves and weed out negative behaviour patterns and negative conditioning, we simply cannot be healthy with another, this is not to say for one moment, that one ought to take full responsibility for the demise of a relationship in its totality, but an understanding of how you played a part in that demise and what part you played.

You simply cannot expect to make another accountable if they choose not to be aware, or simply acknowledge in communication with you, their part, or even validate any hurt their actions may have fostered.

You see pain, in particular in relationships, I believe are one of our greatest Teachers, and greatest assets to be able to force us to grow and come out of our conditioned comfort zone.

Many will say how the hell can you give advice on relationships when you are not in one? well here is the thing, if you are a person who does reflect and does look in the mirror you can glean a lot from what hasn’t worked, what things you have done, what things you haven’t done and you can take this lessons forward, there is no greater lesson than that what is deemed as failure both from your own inner critic and from an observational view of the lens.

I have come to learn that the reason why the very thing that you may truly desire from your soul and heart eludes you, is because perhaps you have been eluding yourself? quite often the focus on “other” is a mechanism to deflect you from looking at yourself, it is easy to get into a situation whereby it’s always the other persons fault, but that is just proportioning blame, which serves no purpose, that is just a justification to take no responsibility for being part of that journey.

You see my learning is that when you love deeply there can be acts of imbalance in that you give all of yourself, sometimes at times at the expense of “other” when in actual fact, the gift is to learn interdependence, keep a level of individuality and a level of interdependence in equal measure.  Having been part of unhealthy relationships, I now get to witness so much earlier on, the red flags of where a situation could become co-dependent, that is not love, that is enabling, that is control, and love is not about control.

Love needs to be given a space to be free, to flourish, to grow, to emerge in its floral design, so that both emerge and grow to their highest and greatest potential.  One of the healthiest relationships is where honest, truthful and connected, present communication exists, where there is absolutely no fear or judgement in being able to express your true, honest and authentic self.

The gift of loving unconditionally without expectation is the gift of detachment, for when you get to a place where there is no expectation of an outcome, there is no need, nor desire to “fix” other, but to focus on fixing, YOU, that is the gift of a healthy relationship.

In today’s society there are a great deal of unhealthy relationships, I know this from a wisdom perspective, and knowledge as being part of a group, observation and reading.

Unhealthy relationship patterns can be learnt from an early age, even from the perspective of what appears on the outside, a very healthy relationship to co-dependency and enabling patterns that take place in the home.

When you can get to a place where you can safely allow your souls true authentic self to shine, express itself without fear or judgement, and the same for other, then that right there is a healthy balance.

Love is not control, loves needs space to be able to express its truth, not all flowers and rose tinted glasses all of the time, but the moments of emotions that may not feel very comfortable, when you get to a place where you can connect with someone and you show all facets of your character and personality and there is nothing hidden, and both of you are able to hold each other in those moments by being emotionally present and available, that is a healthy relationship.

If you feel the need to “fix” make excuses, dum down who you are, or suppress your emotions or who you are that is control, that isn’t healthy.  The importance of honest communication is also about allowing yourself to vocalise your feelings without fear this helps the relationship grow because you are showing your vulnerability, and it is only when we truly drop our guard, show our vulnerability that we can truly have an honest loving relationship and remember, just because you behave in a particular way, it does not mean expecting other to be the same, because that right there is one of the situations that will set you up for a fall.  Most of us do have an expectation of how we perceive things should be, but in the love stakes, usually it turns out to be completely different, that is because we had an expectation.

Love is a gift when it is allowed to grow and flow.

In love & light, Susan. xxx

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Today it is a Full Moon (Strawberry) what do you need to release? let go of that no longer serves you? 28/6/2018

Happy Full Moon Day,

Full Moon, what’s that all about? why is it important.  Well the Full Moon gives you an opportunity to do some positive things.

On a Full Moon you can release and let go of what is no longer serving your souls purpose.  The key objectives are

  • Setting your intent
  • Sending love to those in need, releasing who you need to with love
  • Meditate quietly on what it is you would like to manifest.
  • Envision yourself moving forward and releasing what isn’t working, has not been working and where you feel you have exhausted every avenue.
  • Get in touch with your emotions.
  • Letting go of an attitude, situation, circumstance, behaviour, thought which are negative in their energy, a reminder that what you think comes back.

The key principles are cleansing and regeneration and allowing your soul to be given the gift of renewal so that it supports your soul growth.

I will be doing a Full Moon Release gathering on my Facebook page tonight @ Susan Lawrence Soul Coaching, so today, the Sun is beaming which is the polar opposite of the moon, enjoy your manifestations, and remember always do your manifestations from a place of love and from the heart, oh and be careful what you wish for.

Happy Full Moon Release.

In love & light, Susan xx

Susan Lawrence Soul Coaching.

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